Definition
Give time, attention, resources or skills with freedom, measurement and discernment.
Generosity can involve money, but also time, attention, knowledge, hospitality or forgiveness. It is all the more fair as it remains free, proportionate and respectful. Giving is not taking power: the recipient retains his dignity and ability to choose.
To be retained
- Giving freely and without humiliation
- Adapt the gesture to the real need
- Share time and attention
- Maintaining a sustainable generosity
Origin of the term and context
The word comes from the Latin generosus, "of noble birth", and then took on the meaning of greatness of heart and of disposition to give.
Why does it matter?
Generosity creates a link and flows resources. Its quality depends less on the amount given than on the freedom, adequacy and respect of the aided person.
- Creating social ties
- Disbursement of resources
- Support the feeling of belonging
- Deliver more effect when it respects autonomy
How can I practice it?
- Give time as much as objects
- Ask before helping
- Stay discreet on his gesture
- Choosing a sustainable generosity
Misconceptions and points of caution
- Giving a lot is not always helping better.
- Generosity must not buy recognition.
- Denying a request may sometimes be fair.
Perspectives from different traditions
- Islam: zakat and sadaqa.
- Christianity: charity and sharing.
- Sikhism: seva, unselfish service.
To go further
- The gift — Marcel Mauss
- The strength of generosity — various essays