Definition
Recognize the dignity, rights, limits and singularity of others, even when their beliefs differ from ours.
Respect does not mean admiration or approval. Respect is manifested in the way of speaking, asking for consent, preserving privacy and allowing everyone the opportunity to refuse.
To be retained
- Recognizing dignity before agreement
- Ask instead of assume
- Protecting consent and limitations
- Respecting your own integrity
Origin of the term and context
Respected Latin means, in particular, "rearing back" or "review." Modern meaning combines consideration, restraint and recognition of a person's value.
Why does it matter?
The humanities relate perceived respect to trust, cooperation and relational security, but these effects depend on the power relationship and concrete actions, not just declared intentions.
- Recognizing dignity before agreement
- Ask instead of assume
- Protecting consent and limitations
- Respecting your own integrity
How can it be explored or practised?
- Let someone finish before answering
- Request your consent before a counsel or contact
- Name a disagreement without attacking the person
- Accept a refusal without insisting
Misconceptions and points of caution
- Respect does not oblige to tolerate violence.
- A hierarchy does not remove dignity.
- The silence imposed is not a proof of respect.
Perspectives from different traditions
- Confucianism: attention to relationships, roles and reciprocity.
- Humanism: equal dignity and rights of every person.
- Monastic traditions: respect for the rule, host and community.
To go further
- Respect — Jean-Louis Genard
- Human dignity — essays of moral philosophy